Sorry...

I am 40 years old living with my partner. I work as a secretary which I love. I have a passion for cats, dogs and penguins. I am a big lady with a love for life and recently both my partner and I have had the shock of him being diagnosed with prostate cancer (so much for it being an old mans disease - hes 51 next week!) and has been told he is incureable which makes you realise just how fragile life is and how precious it has become. I myself have several major health issues including being bipolor and diabetic and have been told that if I don't make some major changes and actually take care of myself I will loose it - so this is now my time.