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'This page is dedicated to ego that part of us that continues to worry, lives in doubt, is afriad, judges other people, is afriad to trust, needs proof, believes only when it is convenient, fails to follow-up, refuses to practice what it preaches, needs to be rescued, wants to be a victim, beats up on "self", need to be right all of the time, and continues to hold on to what does not work.You are now put on notice that YOUR DAYS ARE NUMBERED!'Quote from Iyanla Vanzant I am an entrepreneur and a breakthrough coach. I work with people who.. *are experiencing challenges in their life or re-occurring patterns that are preventing them from creating the life they really want? *feel that it is time for change, but you are unsure how to move forward? *have unresolved issues in their life that restrict them from achieving their true potential? *need help with fully understanding how past lives on in their life today and affects the way they live their life? *are looking to be successful and overcome personal or professional barriers to succeed You can learn more about me here. http://www.solidfoundations.co.uk

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The Open Toe Shoe Pledge - Summers Here!

Tuesday, April 17th, 2007, 12:50 pm

i had to share this with you all...its such a blast! 

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The Open Toe Shoe Pledge

Alright ladies, it's that time of year once again!!!

I think we need to be reminded of a few things. So my sisters, PLEASE, raise your big toes and repeat after me below...

The Open Toed Shoe Pledge As a member of the Cute Girl Sisterhood,

I pledge to follow the Rules when wearing sandals and other open-toe shoes:

*I promise to always wear sandals that fit. My toes will not hang over and touch the ground, nor will my heels spill over the backs. And the sides and tops of my feet will not budge out between the straps.

*I will go polish-free or vow to keep the polish fresh, intact and chip-free. I will not cheat and just touch up my big toe.

*I will sand down any mounds of skin before they! turn hard and yellow.

*I will shave the hairs off my big toe.

* I won't wear pantyhose even if my misinformed girlfriend, coworker, mother, sister tells me the toe seam really will stay under my toes if I tuck it there.

*If a strap breaks, I won't duct-tape, pin, glue or tuck it back into place hoping it will stay put. I will get my shoe fixed or toss it.

*I will not live in corn denial; rather I will lean on my good friend Dr. Scholl's if my feet need him. 

*I will take my toe ring off toward the end of the day if my toes swell and begin to look like Vienna sausages.

*I will be brutally honest with my girlfriend/sister/coworker when she asks me if her feet are too ugly to wear sandals. Someone has to tell her that her toes are as long as my fingers and no sandal makes creepy feet look good.

*I will promise if I wear flip flops that I will ensure that they actually flip and flop, making the correct noise while walking and I will swear NOT to slide or drag my feet while wearing them.

*I will promise to throw away any white/off-white sandals that show signs of wear... nothing is tackier than dirty white sandals. Don't keep this to yourself - pass it on to other sisters

 

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One things about LETTING GO

Friday, April 13th, 2007, 4:47 pm

One of the things that many people have problems with is LETTING GO.

People often hold on to things because of the feelings associated with the fear rejection; abandonment; loss etc. 

I love this and I wanted to share it with you all.  I have revised it just a liitle bit to make it shorter.

Let it go for 2007...   By T. D. Jakes 

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.   The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to
you, you can't make them stay. Let them go.  And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to ...... LET IT GO!!!

*If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...... LET IT GO!!!  
*If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth ..... LET IT GO!!! 
*If someone has angered you ........ LET IT GO!!! 
*If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ...... LET IT GO!!! 
*If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ..... LET IT GO!!! 
*If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents .......... LET IT GO!!! 
*If you have a bad attitude ....... LET IT GO!!! 
*If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better ...... LET IT GO!!! 
*If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him ...... LET IT GO!!! 
*If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship ........... LET IT GO!!! 
*If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves ......... LET IT GO!!! *If you're feeling depressed and stressed ......... LET IT GO!!!
*If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to ......... LET IT GO!!!
*Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!! 


LET IT GO!!!

GET RIGHT or GET LEFT .. think about it, and then LET IT GO!!!

Dionne x



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One thing about..

Wednesday, April 11th, 2007, 8:31 am

I am dedicating my blog to share my ideas and experiences about life and my learnings as a breakthrough coach.

Each post will be about a topic relating to our physical, emotional, mental, spiritual well-being and health.  

Today's post is called..

Just one thing about FAILURE.

There is no such thing as failure.  Many people are scared of doing things in their lives because they are scared that they may fail.  Consider the following..

"Put simply, the way to step outside of the Illusion of Failure is to simply see everything as a part of your success. All things lead to your success, produce your success, are part of the process by which you experience your success."

"Many people understand this intuitively. Scientists are among them. When they embark on an important experiment, they not only anticipate failure, they relish it. The pure scientist understands completely that a "failed" experiment has not "failed" at all but merely pointed the way to success."

"Something working out "the way you wanted it to" is not the definition of success, and something "not working out the way you wanted it to" is not the definition of failure. Indeed, if you live a long life there will be times when you will claim the opposite to be true.
What you call many failures are actually successive experiences. And how can any experience which you call "successive" be a failure?"

"Yet the Illusion of Failure is necessary in order to experience the exhilaration of success. If you "succeed" at everything, then you will experience succeeding at nothing. You will simply feel that you are doing what you are doing, but you will not know it as success, nor experience the wonder and the glory of Who You Are, because there would be no contextual field within which to notice that."

Neale Donald Walsh - Communion With God

 

What are the things that you are putting off in your life because you have a fear of failure?

 

Dionne x

 

http://www.solidfoundations.co.uk

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